Did you ever really like a woman?… And so you tried to get her to like you back?
Maybe you took her out. Dropped some dough on her for dinner. Maybe, while out, you made sure you were a total gentleman. Perhaps you did her favors. Or you gave her lots of compliments. Or acted overly-agreeable. Or maybe you used bragging or showing off to try to win her over.
Maybe some combination of all this stuff?
This is pretty much standard practice for most guys. It was for me at one time.
And the reason for doing this?
Simple: So that she sees what a great guy you are, and then becomes interested in you.
But, let’s be honest with each other here…
How has this strategy worked out for you?
If you’re like most guys, not so well. Most likely, rather than ending up in bed, you ended up frustrated. Not feeling like you got out what you put in. The return on your investment of time, energy or money only amounted to you ending up in the dreaded “friend zone.” You may’ve succeeded in having her think you’re a great guy, yes. But, most likely, that never turned into her wanting to be anything more than friends.
Well, what the hell happened here? Why didn’t this work? Isn’t this what our mom told us to do? Isn’t this what works in movies?
Maybe you should try harder next time. Try to be an ever greater guy.
Actually, I’m going to give you a VERY different way of looking at this whole situation. Instead of this approval seeking, nice guy approach, that just doesn’t work, I’m offering…
A completely different way of getting women attracted to you.
In this post, I’m going to show you how to STOP trying to win a woman’s approval. (Which, as you’ll find out, may be a life-long habit)
You’ll learn why being approval seeking just doesn’t work. And in fact, it’s worse than that… Continue reading “Is Your Approval Seeking Behavior Turning Women Off? (Are You Giving Away Your Power to Women – Part 2 of 3)”