(warning: reading this post – and following the advice here – may cause your sack to suddenly expand in volume, to the point that beautiful women will start to stare at you below-the-belt, fawn over you, and follow you around like baby ducklings.) 😉
See if you can relate…
For a lot of men who’ve recently gone through a breakup or divorce, one of the most important parts of feeling like they’ve truly “bounced back” from the whole ordeal, is, well, getting their balls back.
What do I mean by getting your balls back? Let me explain.
Both the time leading up to a divorce or breakup, and it’s aftermath, can entail some pretty emasculating experiences. You can resort to some less than manly behaviors. From your woman withholding sex, to her being cold and distant toward you. And to you excessively explaining yourself to her like a child who came home with a bad report card, to you complaining about her afterward or taking on the role of a victim. It’s safe to say that this period of your life hasn’t left you feeling like your most manly self. But have no fear… Continue reading “6 powerful ways to man up, and get your balls back after your divorce or breakup – part 2 of 2”
Losing your woman hurts.
But for a man, when you lose your woman, the sadness you feel (or anger or frustration) for the end of the relationship is NOT all you’re dealing with.
In many ways, you can feel as though you’ve lost some of your manliness too. Women don’t have to go through this. But men do.
It can be weeks or months after the breakup or divorce, and you still don’t quite feel like yourself. Your masculinity is somehow drained. Your swagger is gone. You tend to second guess yourself. Your assertiveness is half of what it was. It’s as if your balls have literally SHRUNK.
I’m going to show you how to reverse that.
Lets take a quick look at how we lose our balls in the first place. (So we can prevent it from happening again in the future)
Then I will show you 6 powerful “Boost-Your-Balls behaviors” that will ramp back up your masculinity, have you feeling more powerful in your life, and return you to the man you once were. Continue reading “6 Powerful Ways to Feel Like a Man Again, and Get Your Balls Back After Your Divorce or Breakup (part 1 of 2)”
After you’ve gone through a breakup or divorce you can feel as though your level of confidence has fallen off a building…
and then, when it crashed to the pavement, got backed over by a garbage truck… (Ouch!)
Instead of belief in yourself, there’s lots of second-guessing.
And yes, part of you wants to start getting back out there and start meeting women again. You want to rebuild your love life. I applaud you for this and am in your corner.
The only problem is that when you don’t have much confidence, women can read that from a mile away. Women are very intuitive creatures, and it’s as if they can feel you second-guessing yourself. They can feel when a guy has unconfident energy and – despite how great of a guy you are – this is a turn off to any woman. (Ouch, again!)
So today, I’d like to help.
What I’d like to discuss are 4 things you can start doing TODAY that will help rebuild your confidence with women after a breakup or divorce, so that you CAN get back out there, enjoy a great dating life, and meet a great woman.
More specifically these are 4 things that help boost your confidence by… Continue reading “Regain your Confidence with Women After Your Breakup or Divorce: 4 Crucial Things You NEED to Know”
Your woman broke up with you. She no longer wants to be your GF, or maybe she asked you for a divorce. She basically said, directly or indirectly, “My life would be a lot better off without you in it.”
That’s a hard pill to swallow. Not like one of those little caplets with the smooth coating, but more like a big 24-sided Dungeons and Dragon dice-shaped pill that’s been dipped in broken glass.
That’s what it feels like going down anyway.
And when it’s HER who calls it quits, it’s ten times worse, isn’t it?
It’s not only a relationship coming to an end, which brings it’s own sadness.. but because it was HER who was the one to walk away, your male ego feels like it just took a prison beating.
And so it’s pretty normal after this goes down to… Continue reading “Revealed: The Unexpected Truth About Using the “No Contact Rule” After a Breakup or Divorce.. and How it Might Totally BACKFIRE on You”
Depression is almost a dirty word, isn’t it?
Even though 1/3 of all Americans will experience bouts of major depression in their life, especially after times of loss, (like say, umm, after a divorce or breakup for example) it still remains one of those things that’s completely misunderstood.
And because being depressed is so damn misunderstood, most guys who go through a breakup or divorce, and find themselves in a “rut” afterward, they don’t know how to get themselves out of it. They suffer a lot longer than they have to. They get into a downward spiral that effects nearly all parts of their life.
Their motivation to do the things they enjoy suffers. Their physical energy tanks. Their mood is in the toilet. Their ability to focus and make decisions is compromised.
I suspect, if you’re reading this, then some of these “symptoms” sound familiar.
And here’s the thing:
“Being in a state of depression for an extended period of time wreaks havoc on your brain function, submarines your libido, slows your metabolism down to a grinding halt, and beats down your overall health like it stole something…”
And so, if you’ve recently gone through a breakup or divorce, and you find yourself in a “rut” pay very close attention because… Continue reading “Are You “Depressed” After Your Divorce (or Breakup)?… Here’s How to Tell, and What You NEED to Know to Climb Out of the Rut You’re In….”